Patience in Love

One of the recurring issues I hear from my clients is why does it take so long for their soul mate to come into their lives -  we are friends when is it going to turn romantic, are we going to become an item, and when are we getting  married? My guides tell my clients over and over the dreaded word “PATIENCE”.  Believe me, I have had psychics or my Angels tell me the same thing. I even had a dream where a bunch of fireman was singing Diana Ross song “You Can’t Hurry Love”; I was living across the Wharton Fire Department at the time.  I know how frustrating patience can be.

We live in a world of instant:  instant food, microwave food, fast internet, so we expect instant love. Instant love is 9 times out of ten lusts that burns out quickly.  I had one young woman ask when she was going to meet her soul mate and start a family.  The information I received was that there was a very handsome, kind and family oriented man coming for her and two to three children, maybe even twins. Right now it is time to focus on school and career because she would need that to help support the family. My guides also teased that she needs to enjoy her free time because before she knew it she would not have any with her new family.

Recently another female client asked me when she and the guy she was dating would become an item. I got an interesting vision of a house being built where the foundation was laid and the wood studs were up. I interpreted that to mean that was the state of her relationship at the time and that it would continue to grow and build. Of course the horrible “P” word came up. I encouraged her to enjoy the courtship (a lost art form these days) and to focus on her own life.

Another client, who I will call Ann, asked me about her relationship. My Angels told me that although Ann and her boyfriend love each other, they have communication issues and a lot of misunderstandings that cause major problems. Ann needed to read some books on man and woman communication skill and to practice this with her mate. When she starts to improve her communication and listening skills, she will understand her mate’s communication and their relationship will than improve. Ann was not thrilled with that information and asks me “when am I going to get my ring.” This is the time I get to work on my patience and tolerance skills, I responded to work on the communication first and see how that goes before thinking of marriage.

So let’s put away our microwaves when it comes to romantic love. The old saying “patience is a virtue” is so true when it comes to love, but it is also a necessity.  May you always be patient.

Pamela Cummins specializes in love and relationships, personal growth, life direction, dream interpretation, career and finances. She has been blessed with the psychic abilities of clairaudience, clairsentience and clairvoyance.  She uses Egyptian and Goddess tarot to enhance her gifts. She is a channel for loving angels, guides, and ancestors of both her clients and her own. Pamela is also an ordained interfaith spiritualist minister, hypnotherapist, energy healer, teacher, and writer. Please visit her website at www.successfulrel.com